The Results of My Blind Date Marathon
League Table: Click on my dates' names to read about them
Date
No. |
Name
|
Planning
|
Rapport
|
Sweet-
ness |
Total
|
2nd
Date* |
10
|
8
|
8
|
8
|
24
|
Yes
| |
20
|
7
|
8
|
9
|
24
|
No
| |
8
|
8.5
|
7.5
|
7
|
23
|
Yes
| |
6
|
8
|
6
|
9
|
23
|
Yes
| |
11
|
7
|
7
|
9
|
23
|
No
| |
17
|
10
|
7
|
6
|
23
|
Yes
| |
19
|
7.5
|
8
|
7.5
|
23
|
No
| |
15
|
7.5
|
8
|
7
|
22.5
|
Yes
| |
13
|
6
|
7
|
9
|
22
|
No
| |
3
|
8
|
6
|
8
|
22
|
No
| |
7
|
9
|
7
|
6
|
22
|
No
| |
16
|
9
|
6.5
|
6.5
|
22
|
No
| |
18
|
7
|
8
|
6.5
|
21.5
|
Yes
| |
2
|
7
|
7
|
7
|
21
|
No
| |
4
|
7
|
8
|
6
|
21
|
No
| |
5
|
7
|
6
|
7
|
20
|
No
| |
9
|
8
|
4
|
5
|
17
|
No
| |
14
|
3
|
5.5
|
7
|
15.5
|
No
| |
1
|
8
|
4
|
3
|
15
|
No
| |
12
|
0
|
1
|
4
|
5
|
No
|
* 2nd Date? Under normal circumstances would I have gone on a second date with them?
Results Table: My dates in order of ‘scores’. It was Martin’s (Date 10) jokey suggestion that I rate all of my dates in top trumps fashion. And I agreed. Planning refers to how organised and thoughtful they were about designing the date. Rapport refers to how much I think that we had in common. Sweetness refers to how kind and endearing that they seemed. Scores are based just on the impression that the date gave me on the date only and so these score tables shouldn’t be taken too seriously.It’s all subjective.
Benefits and Concerns
Date No. | Name | Benefits | Concerns | Total | 2nd Date* |
10 | Martin | Funny, interesting, kind, smart and considerate | bit loud and might come across as a bit ego driven | 24 | Yes |
8 | Brett | Considerate, shows he listens and easy going | Strange sex tactics | 23 | Yes |
6 | Charles | Fascinating, classy and outgoing | not much in common, a little too soft | 23 | Yes |
17 | Cooper | Hilarious, flirty and outgoing | Bit of a player | 23 | Yes |
15 | James | Individualistic, smart and Funny | Dry and cynical | 22.5 | Yes |
18 | Sam | Common interests, decent rapport and honest | Moaned, doesn't know what he wants | 21.5 | Yes |
20 | Devontay | Great rapport, brilliant to talk to, honest | different stages of life, age differences | 24 | No |
11 | Daniel | Fit, Easy going and strong values | different stages of life, little in common | 23 | No |
19 | Ami | Beautiful, Kind and fun | lesbian | 23 | No |
3 | Alan | Sweet and honest | little in common | 22 | No |
7 | Nick | Good fun and energetic | little to talk about | 22 | No |
16 | Brendan | Fashionable, gorgeous looking and informative | Gay and seems too much of social climber for me | 22 | No |
2 | Seb | Smart and passionate | Little rapport | 21 | No |
4 | Christian | Great fun and rapport | Just too much of a player | 21 | No |
13 | Jubilee | Kind, honest and comes across as loyal | Bit too soft, Little in common | 22 | No |
5 | Darren | Thoughtful and would treat a girl | Still not over his ex | 20 | No |
9 | Mark | Intelligent and individualistic | comes across as little bitter and confused | 17 | No |
14 | Dan | Kind, generous and a great chef | A little passive and not very urban | 15.5 | No |
1 | A | Generous, pro-active and great planner | Seems too aggresive and defensive | 15 | No |
12 | Crow | Seems to know how to have fun | Seems a bit inconsiderate | 5 | No |
* 2nd Date? Under normal circumstances would I have gone on a second date with them?B&C Table: Hmmm... writing a B&Cs table for men you’ve dated. I’ve performed one of the saddest most tacky tasks possible. Obviously all of this is just based on the one first-date and so first impressions really
Awards for the Best...
Award
|
Name
|
Date no.
|
Best date organiser
|
Martin
|
10
|
Best Dressed
|
Ami
|
19
|
Best emailer
|
Charles
|
6
|
Best first impression
|
Christian
|
4
|
Best friend
|
Christian
|
4
|
Best goodbye
|
Brett
|
8
|
Best Joker
|
Martin
|
10
|
Best mind-reader
|
Martin
|
10
|
Best story teller
|
Charles
|
6
|
Best Teaser
|
Devontay
|
20
|
Best texter
|
Martin
|
10
|
Best understanding of the marathon
|
Martin
|
10
|
Biggest bragger
|
Martin
|
10
|
Biggest spender
|
A
|
1
|
Least organised
|
Crow
|
12
|
Loudest
|
Martin
|
10
|
Most Chivalrous
|
Charles
|
6
|
Most dazzlingly good-looking
|
Brendan
|
16
|
Most easy to talk to
|
Devontay
|
20
|
Most easy-going
|
Devontay
|
20
|
Most extravagant
|
A
|
1
|
Most flirty
|
Cooper
|
17
|
Most inappropriate story
|
Brett
|
8
|
Most intense
|
Mark
|
9
|
Most intriguing
|
Charles
|
6
|
Most out-doorsy
|
Cooper
|
17
|
Most out-going
|
Cooper
|
17
|
Most polite
|
Daniel
|
11
|
Most posh
|
Charles
|
6
|
Most romantic
|
Brett
|
8
|
Most self-assured
|
Devontay
|
20
|
Most thoughtful
|
Brett
|
8
|
Most urbane
|
Brendan
|
16
|
Sweetest
|
Jubilee
|
13
|
Weirdest philosophy
|
James
|
15
|
Best Meal
|
A
|
1
|
Most entertaining
|
Martin
|
10
|
Most down to earth
|
Christian
|
4
|
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The Blind Date Email:
My Relationship History: The Relationship Hopper, Sex Addict, and Weapon of Masturbation
Date 1: A – Full frontal nudity
Date 2: Seb – A man in tights
Date 3: Alan - the softy
Date 4: Christian – Hot Trinidadian
Date 5: Darren – Too into his ex
Date 6: Charles – Trainwreck part I
Date 6.5 Charles – part II
Wait a minute Kelyn, What are you doing?
Date 7: Nick the Greek
Date 8: Brett – Poptart
Date 9: Mark – Bowling and Politics
Date 10: Martin – FAIL
Martin’s Perspective
Date 11: Daniel – DILF
Date 12: Crow – Chronic Bail
Date 13: Jubilee –French Accent
Date 14: Dan – A Black man in Waitrose?
Date 15: James – Relationships are like Laptops
Date 16: Cooper – The Booty Call
Date 17: Brendan – When a man Out-dresses You
Date18: Sam – The Reluctant Dragon
Date 19: Ami – My Lesbian One Night Stand
Date 20: Devontay – If I were a few years younger...
The Blind Date Email:
My Relationship History: The Relationship Hopper, Sex Addict, and Weapon of Masturbation
Date 1: A – Full frontal nudity
Date 2: Seb – A man in tights
Date 3: Alan - the softy
Date 4: Christian – Hot Trinidadian
Date 5: Darren – Too into his ex
Date 6: Charles – Trainwreck part I
Date 6.5 Charles – part II
Wait a minute Kelyn, What are you doing?
Date 7: Nick the Greek
Date 8: Brett – Poptart
Date 9: Mark – Bowling and Politics
Date 10: Martin – FAIL
Martin’s Perspective
Date 11: Daniel – DILF
Date 12: Crow – Chronic Bail
Date 13: Jubilee –French Accent
Date 14: Dan – A Black man in Waitrose?
Date 15: James – Relationships are like Laptops
Date 16: Cooper – The Booty Call
Date 17: Brendan – When a man Out-dresses You
Date18: Sam – The Reluctant Dragon
Date 19: Ami – My Lesbian One Night Stand
Date 20: Devontay – If I were a few years younger...